I have been following a friends blog who is in the process of adopting. She recently has experienced two failed adoptions. It reminded me of when we were going through this process and how absolutely devastating it is to have situations not work out and sometimes not just once but multiple times. Time does heal the wounds especially when One has three little miracles to help with the healing. However, telling someone this while they are going through it, does not help. I have found myself with nothing to say because I know that no words will take the pain away. I am constantly reminded that life isn't fair so when life hands you something good, hold on to it with all your might and never take it for granted.
My children, though a handful for sure are my biggest joy. They make me smile every day ( some days more than others)